To be quite honest, I'm a little embarrassed. I sent one of our engagement pictures to the newsletter team because it was one of the only professional photos of Matthew and I that was stored on my computer. (I wasn't about to send them a wedding pic. That would have been strange.) But, I'm flattered that they took the time and effort to include me in their community! Never in a million years would I have anticipated such an opportunity to exercise my areas of interest here in Cambridge while Matthew was studying his. I guess I need to quit saying "never." Never thought I'd live in England. Never thought I'd get to use my talents. Never thought I'd go to Fashion Week. Blah, blah, blah. Clearly, I can never say "never" again.
And furthermore, Sela from Touch of Africa featured my previous post (Clothes Culture) on her company website and facebook page. I wrote it intending to bring some publicity to her enterprise, and she ended up showcasing my writing and photography in return. Again, never had I imagined that anyone would care to read anything that I wrote. But, thanks to comments and encouragement from all you readers out there, I am beginning to think differently. Using the statistics information from Blogger, I can track how many times my blog is viewed and from what countries. So far, it has been read over 6,200 times by people in at least 10 different countries!!! Insane! Never would have guessed our lives as Okie emigrants would mean something to that many people. Apparently, it's not just our parents keeping tabs on us. Thank you for investing in our adventures and exploring along with us! It means more than you know.
Finally, I wanted to mention a couple other things that I never anticipated having to deal with while living in a first world country.
1. Separate faucets for hot and cold water. Why not just combine them into one like everywhere else? The shower only has one spout, meaning that it can be done. I even asked the maintenance man who came to inspect our boiler system, "Why are there two separate faucets? Wouldn't it be more efficient (and less painful for your hands) for the water to mix?" He couldn't give me an answer, and he's an expert! Come on, folks.
2. A washing machine detergent drawer that must be emptied every time it is used. The slots in the drawer fill with water and turn gunky if you don't completely dump them out after each cycle. This does not leave me confident in the cleanliness of our clothes and linens. Why doesn't it drain like every other washing machine in the world? I must say I am looking forward to owning a washer (AND A DRYER!) next year that doesn't require constant maintenance and doesn't sound like a semi-truck is roaring through our kitchen.
3. Ice crystals taking over the refrigerator. Poor hubby has had to employ my hairdryer in a melting scheme to unfreeze the ice box in our fridge. I don't know how it happens, but ice just builds up on the 'ceiling' until it's covered. And then, the contents in the fridge don't stay cold because all of the cooling energy goes into maintaining the ice. Blast. Well, at least Matthew looks good fixing our problems. I like his dressy casual approach to home repairs.
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| He got mad at me for sneaking up on him and taking this picture because the camera flashed and he thought he had just electrocuted himself. |


The one piece of advice that your Aunt Jennifer gave me before I went off to college was "Never say Never" and honestly I think that is one of the most useful sayings that I think most of us need to employ. Can't say how many times I've heard people who don't have kids say to someone who does have kids "I'd never allow such and so" and I would just have to chuckle and say to myself, we'll see when you actually have kids what you do and don't do. So as you are seeing, you are learning "never say never" because life is just too uncertain and we will always be learning something from those things that give us frustration whether it's just that someone really doesn't have a good explanation or how much we just appreciate all the great things that we have to enjoy in our lives.
ReplyDeleteSo once again, thanks for your insightful ways and I love knowing that you are seeing how many people are interested in what you are doing and also that you are learning so many great things through the adventure.
Love you always!
Mom